EFFECTS OF COMMUNICATION

vikram karve
vikram karve / 4 yrs ago /
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PUBLIC SPEAKING – PART 3

EFFECTS OF COMMUNICATION

By

VIKRAM KARVE

 

Why do you speak…?

The aim of any communication is to produce a desired effect on the audience.  Communication is a stimulus and the effect of communication is the response we elicit from the recipient of our communication.

So before you speak, you must ask yourself: “What effect will my words have on the person(s) to whom I am speaking…?”

You must be clear in your mind what outcome you want to achieve and ask yourself: “How can I bring about the desired effect in the person I am communicating with…? What do I need to say…? What style should I adopt…?”

Given below are various effects a communication can produce in the audience, outcomes which you as a speaker can create in a listener, intentionally, or unintentionally, if you are not careful. You may intend to sympathize with someone but she may think you are patronizing her. You may want to humour someone and land up humiliating or insulting him. Unintentional lapses in communication may result in negative outcomes in the audience. Converely you may want to confuse your audience and end up educating them…!

 

A FEW COMMUNICATION EFFECTS (STIMULUS and RESPONSE)

 

Inform

Instruct

Impress

Influence

Irritate

Insult

Instigate

Inflame

Teach

Guide

Educate

Persuade

Dissuade

Flatter

Humour

Entertain

Patronize

Appease

Console

Cajole

Confuse

Activate

Sympathize

Chastise

Humiliate

Annoy

Disgust

Alienate

Warn

 

Whether it is public speaking or interpersonal communication, make sure you have a definite intention and clear about the communication effect you want to achieve in the audience before you speak rather than create an unpredictable effect on the listener by default.

And if you do not want to have any effect on a person (or to cause any change in their understanding, beliefs, feelings or behaviour) then it is best to remain silent. Why indulge in aimless communication…? Why speak if you have nothing to say…?

 

VIKRAM KARVE 

Copyright © Vikram Karve 2010

Vikram Karve has asserted his right under the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988 to be identified as the author of this work.  

 

VIKRAM KARVE educated at IIT Delhi, ITBHU and The Lawrence School Lovedale, is an Electronics and Communications Engineer by profession, a Human Resource Manager and Trainer by occupation, a Teacher by vocation, a Creative Writer by inclination and a Foodie by passion. An avid blogger, he has written a number of fiction short stories and creative non-fiction articles in magazines and journals for many years before the advent of blogging. His delicious foodie blogs have been compiled in a book "Appetite for a Stroll". Vikram lives in Pune with his family and pet Doberman girl Sherry, with whom he takes long walks thinking creative thoughts.  

Vikram Karve Creative Writing Blog - http://vikramkarve.sulekha.com

Academic Journal Vikram Karve – http://karvediat.blogspot.com

Professional Profile of Vikram Karve - http://www.linkedin.com/in/karve 

Email: vikramkarve@sify.com

Foodie Book:  Appetite for a Stroll  

 


vikram karve / / 4 yrs ago
vikram karve

PUBLIC SPEAKING PART 2
http://karvediat.blogspot.com/2010/08/how-to-give-speech.html

PUBLIC SPEAKING PART 1
http://karvediat.blogspot.com/2010/08/how-to-deliver-good-lecture.html


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